Before they moved to Cardiff Tim and Shirley were for many years my mother's next door neighbours in Plymouth. My words cannot describe how kind and supportive they were when she developed dementia, to her and to me, 240 miles away. There's no way I can convey just how wonderful Shirley was. Nor how to express my distress when I learnt that she too had succumbed to this terrible disease. Rest In Peace, Shirley. I remember you with gratitude.  Liz